tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784477103605372766.post2469583444218627586..comments2023-10-26T16:15:22.531+01:00Comments on dakkylove blog: ROMANCE WHERE DID YOU GO??dakkylovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16376407220939771608noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784477103605372766.post-46388062499937791982010-07-16T23:39:22.552+01:002010-07-16T23:39:22.552+01:00Romance doesn't have to be like the movies, or...Romance doesn't have to be like the movies, or does it *wink*.It's easy after all he used to do it when he was chasing her, i hope. <br /><br />It is the extra something that makes the relationship worth it not to forget saving it from becoming a brother/sister affair.Simple Luxuries NGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02979179179681924415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784477103605372766.post-18957494937918932312010-06-14T18:20:39.548+01:002010-06-14T18:20:39.548+01:00my cool friend that i call my son's comment
...my cool friend that i call my son's comment<br /><br /><br />But what’s wrong with flowers and poetry naa?<br />I thot a ‘real lady’ shouldn’t mind what her man brings to the table.<br />As the old song goes: money can’t buy me love (ala romance)..<br />It’s just the ‘feminine liberation’ syndrome again; our mums didn’t want Cartier rings or trips to Nice, yet they spent forever with our dads. Now that’s the kinda love I want!dakkylovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16376407220939771608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784477103605372766.post-40773203656566915952010-06-14T18:10:19.612+01:002010-06-14T18:10:19.612+01:00my girl michelle's comment
Sorry oh… im not o...my girl michelle's comment<br /><br />Sorry oh… im not ok with flowers alone, thank you very much! I tell u say my papa no get flower pot for garden???na flower dey sick me??? Abi dem dey take am cook soup? Some guys are so cheap that they hang on to the “buy her flowers and read her poetry” garb for longer than is healthy, just so they don’t spend money… una sorry , u hear! When u buy flower for date 1, na thank you you go get. If by date 2 u don’t diversify and do/show up with something different, your yeye ‘romance’ will die as naturally as your cassava flower…mshewwwwwwdakkylovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16376407220939771608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784477103605372766.post-24526650432154901182010-06-14T18:03:57.655+01:002010-06-14T18:03:57.655+01:00my other friends comment her name is janieee
Adak...my other friends comment her name is janieee<br /><br />Adaks - nice write up as usual. I quite agree the romance pattern seems to have changed with time.<br />I guess most chics these days don’t need the gifts I guess. They rather do the buying.<br />Maybe its due to all these our women liberation and too much money.<br /><br />Anyway, personally no matter how loaded and liberated I am, I prefer good old school dating.<br />And my man really does not have to go through a hard process to “land me” (Olaitan pls take note)<br />But he definitely will go through one to keep me.<br />I don’t believe in playing games with people. If I like a guy enuf to date him, why not? <br />But while we are dating, there has to be the perfumes and the flowers and poetry (I don’t care if d poem is borrowed)<br />And all those lil thotful thing that counts + he’s being faithful<br /><br />I don’t think the guys are wholly to blame. Most times the chics allow it so the guys don’t bother making an effort.dakkylovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16376407220939771608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784477103605372766.post-77015163470816350922010-06-14T18:01:47.583+01:002010-06-14T18:01:47.583+01:00anor friends comment..p.s they cant comment on her...anor friends comment..p.s they cant comment on here so i will be bringing their comments to you guys.<br /><br />Romance is not about spending all the money in the world or flying me off to egypt for holiday(ok i would looove that)but women like to feel wanted.<br />tell us how beautiful we look when we make a damn effort , send us a text message once in a while even though you hate typing, tell us you have never tasted food so good when we cook a meal, take us somewhere fancy sometimes..it doesn't have to be the moon but be creative, a new restaurant cant be that bad.sometimes instead of whining about how much we nag look into our eyes like you are just seeing us for the first time....do what you have to do, whether you are just meeting us for the first time, or we have spent 20 years of marriage with us find that friend of yours called Romance and bring him home before some other smart muther f!@#$%er finds him for you...yes i am taking this very personal.lol<br /><br />Like Michael Jackson would say<br /><br />WHAT ABOUT USSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSdakkylovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16376407220939771608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784477103605372766.post-24853217651691444402010-06-14T17:58:56.752+01:002010-06-14T17:58:56.752+01:00a friends comment on my other blog about this topi...a friends comment on my other blog about this topic.<br /><br /><br />The whole confusion I see here could be linked to role-confusion in our “modern” societies.<br /><br />In this modern “war of the sexes” men are not always men and women not always women! Liberation, emancipation and other coinages have allowed us to switch roles as many times as we like, ostensibly, to suit our immediate ends only.<br /><br />I believe sticking to our natural roles of men doing the chasing and women doing the “dummy” running (which is just to add pep to the chase) should suffice. Romance is a 2 way street – a woman can bring out the best in you and the same goes for the men, though I agree some guys are always in a “rush” and some chicks “run” too far to be “caught”.<br /><br />True life experience<br /><br />I once sent flowers (12 red roses) to a lady I had been pestering for over 6 months. It had with it, a personalized poem (written by moi) woven around her name. I made sure it got to her office first thing in the morning (before she did). I did not write my name but I left clues in the poem about our discussion the previous night. <br /><br />It worked wonders! Everyone in her office loved it and gave her a princess’ welcome when she arrived. Everyone wanted to know who the guy was and urged her to tell. They did not believe when she told them she wasn’t sure who it was.<br /><br />Do you know that I did not need to toast her any further? Everyone in her office did the rest of the job for me. They simply convinced her to give the “romantic guy” a chance as they all loved the poem & the flowers (guys & chicks).<br /><br />She called me later that morning to confirm if I had sent anything to her and I said no. She asked if I was sure & I responded in the affirmative. I later called (after 2 minutes) to ask if she remembered our previous discussion the night before and immediately she knew I sent the flowers. What followed was the best relationship of my life. <br /><br />I wasn’t a rich guy and even if I was, it would have been difficult to impress the daughter of this high ranking government official! Their lawn alone was bigger than my parents’ whole house multiplied by 2! But all that didn’t matter to us. It was true love born from the heart. Unfortunately we couldn’t get married for medical compatibility reasons. We both decided it would be selfish to go further and called it off.<br /><br />Anyone who lives and doesn’t experience TRUE love has not lived at all. Go out there and experience it - it is worth every heart beat!!<br /><br />Now I am married with a son & she is still one of my best friends and guys ……. She is still single!!dakkylovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16376407220939771608noreply@blogger.com